If you get attached to everyone the same: the same strength of passion, the same longing within, then what is really significant about one amongst the others?
It is most likely, not the connection of two people and thier energies, but more possibly something within you that is out of coherence. That is responsible for the cravings and the so thought need for another.
It is your own inner hunger that must be examined, not a magical connection and experience that is unique to one individual.
Calm yourself. Seek the silence beneath the feelings felt within. Find a steadiness, and observe with a tranquil state the energies that are much more subtle, but even more true.
The Undoing of Me 
I think Longing is a Liar. Cousin of Coveting. They talk big, but there’s no Life in them.
I think you are spot on.
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Man so true! I needed that reminder. So timely.
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