The only time we should consider others, is to ask ourselves, “will it help them or hurt them?”
This is the one single time we should allow others into our headspace.
Other than that, I do not see any purpose or justification.
For what is all other consideration and contemplating of another’s life, if it’s not to help, heal, or harm?
Is it not otherwise self-gratifying?
Gossip
Comparison
Prying into
Entertaining
Judging
Criticizing
Measuring
I have enough within myself and own little world, that needs looked into, surrendered, and refined..: most likely hammered out…
To be looking at the same crap in another’s and trying to skim it out…
This is a lesson for myself. Something that I do need to seriously work on, I wanted to share.
The truth sets us free.
The Undoing of Me 